It’s a humbling thought.  That words and stories have the power to shift our hearts, our understandings, our pathways…  That we might pick up the labor of some writer’s person’s love and be…changed…

The idea has been rolling around in my head for awhile, so I started keeping a list — a list that begins with the very first book I read on my own.  I’ll share my list with you on Monday.

But what I really want to know is…what about your list?

If your life had one bookshelf, what would be on it?  What author{s} have moved you?  Which series was so compelling, you forgot to eat?  You met the characters in your dreams?  The thinker’s question still rings in your ear?  What books…shifted your paradigm?

Think on it, sleep on it, talk to your friends, make your list, write a post, and let’s link up next Thursday

No rules.  Just books that have mattered to you.

Let’s make a space where we can read each other’s lists!  I have a button for you {below} and I’ll put the whole link-up in the sidebar for all of our reference.

Happy brainstorming!

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I read the most beautiful play, William Nicholson’s “Shadowlands,” based on the story of the short and beautiful marriage between C.S. Lewis and Joy Gresham.  When the couple marry, they know it will be short: Joy has cancer and they are aware, as they exchange vows in the hospital, that Joy’s days left on earth are few.

The play reached every part of me.  It made me laugh aloud, made me angry, challenged me.  Lewis boldly defies to answer the unanswerable question of “why?”  Ultimately, the story dared me to look at our meager earthly existence as it really is…”only shadows.”

I so highly recommend it.

shadowlands There are also movies based on the play: you can find the one with Anthony Hopkins here or the one with Joss Ackland here.

Go in grace, friends.  The best is yet to come.

{P.S. – If you love “Shadowlands” or can’t get to it quickly enough, I also can’t say enough about A Grief Observed.  This book is taken from Lewis’ personal journals during the season after Joy passed away.  He originally published them under a pseudonym because they were so raw and honest.}

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My parents finally rebuilt after Katrina.  It took them more than six years.  I can’t even imagine this process…  For so many reasons. antique brick home The hours spent selecting details for their home makes my head swim.  But one of my favorites?  Their brick.  At first it seems simple, to choose a brick.  But then to think of the way it girds the home, surrounds the framework and encloses the new things and the salvaged ones…  It’s almost too much to wrap my mind around…

It’s called antique brick, the one they picked.  It was rescued…just like the oil paintings from art class, and the framed lyrics, and the milk glass punch bowl set that can never be used again.

brick and lamp It’s antique brick because it once contained another home, surrounded others’ memories.  When you get close, you see the scraped paint, the repainted, the fades, imperfections.

antique brick wall But it takes my breath away.  This brick, retained for good things, the imperfections…now art.  A home built from other homes.

antique brick And you know me.  I wonder about us people, about the scraped and repainted pieces, the fragments and how they rebuild us.  I wonder about redemption {goodness} in the small things like brick houses.

If something so beautiful comes from chipped, scraped paint, sand, rock, and clay, what about…

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media fast Who knew a media fast would terrify me so?  During March, I was thinking that April would be the “waste fast” {a month of practicing greener habits}, but on about March 30th, I realized the media fast was upon us.  {Granted, I can do whatever I want.}  Oh, how I fought it.  Then, I came across a tweet. It said, “We never find out the strength of the evil impulse inside us until we try to fight it. @CSLewis.” {Yes, he tweets.  Didn’t you know?}

But really.  It was complicated.

1. We were heading into Spring Break {really?  a week off work and no media?}.  Also, we were leaving town for a bit, staying in someone else’s home in a small and unfamiliar town.  It was a comfort thing.  And a coffee-shop finder.  And GPS.  And a “hey! why is this highway named after him?” finder-outer.

2. As soon as we came home, it was paper-writing time.  This meant that a} I had no brainpower for figuring out how to launch a fast and b} when I wasn’t working on the paper, I was, well, watching TV.  Or scrolling through instagram.  Or reading blog posts.  I wasn’t exactly reaching for a book.

3. This fast affects Mike, potentially more than any of ‘em.  Could I really impose a media fast on him?  Do I leave the room if he wants to watch a movie?  What about the shows we like to watch together on date nights?  So he had to be involved…and it wasn’t exactly at the top of our dinner-conversation list.

4. There is no good time to fast from media.  When you’re busy, you want a break.  When you’re off for a week {or a summer}, you want freedom.  When you think you can deal with it anyway, a you start watching “Mr. Selfridge.

Yes, I realize that focusing on the method of the fast completely contradicts what I’m learning about fasting.  It is a process, folks.

So here is where we ended up.  We could:

No. 1:  Fast from 7 media sources for a month, just like Jen did in 7.

No. 2:  Fast from 5 sources instead.  {After all, I gave up Facebook long ago and we moved our TV out of the bedroom a few months back.  That should count as two already, right?}

No. 3:  Give ourselves a time-limit of media {say, an hour a day, or five hours a week}.

No. 4:  Fast from ALL media…for a week.  {I thought this might fare better with the hubby.  And, I’m pretty sure that’s what her Bible Study suggests.  It seems fair.}

No. 5:  Fast from solo media.  As in…keep the stuff you do together.  Ditch blog reading, instagram, twitter, pinterest, etc.

No. 6:  Go out of town for a weekend and leave media behind.  This is actually quite feasible for us.  A local conference center has a retreat-house especially for ministers and their wives.  You can’t get cell phone reception, internet is spotty and slow, and there’s no TV.  Then again, we you have this view, why would you need any of that stuff?

retreat house {About a year ago…  I think we will be going back regardless.}

So we went with No. 7: the hybrid.

We are fasting for one week {the first 7 days of May}.  We are continuing to keep the stuff we do together.  Mike pointed out that sticking our noses in different books would not be the best way to spend time together when we have the time to be together.

And we are spending the remaining weeks of May deeply committed to another possessions fast, finishing what we started.

My posts are scheduled out {they always are}, but until the fast is over, I’ll be under the radar.

{For when I return…have any of you held media fasts?  How did you do it?  How did it go?  How did it change you?  Will you do it again?}

See you soon.

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april goodness

April was April this year.  Among other things, the yard bloomed.  Our yard is beautiful…an entire front lawn {well. hill.} of dogwood and azaleas, blooming together.  I am in awe of this every spring.  Also, I finished my first graduate class.  Meaning: if I could do a back handspring, I would do one right now.  Since I can’t, I am eating unreal peanut butter cups instead.

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As soon as I finished writing my final paper {actually, while Mike was proofreading it for the final time}, I picked up my first non-school book in a while:  Shadowlands.  It’s the play upon which the movie is based…the story of C.S. Lewis’ beautiful but brief marriage to Joy Gresham.  I finished reading it the following evening, but I have been living with it for days now.  It’s a must-read.

Of course, there’s Ann’s post, “When You’re Praying for Boston.”  These 15 words.

Even though there’s a bit of a theme, here, I couldn’t resist Lewis’ words on the topic of “the secret thread” from The Problem of Pain.  He says, “There have been times when I think we do not desire heaven; but more often I find myself wondering whether, in our heart of hearts, we have ever desired anything else.  You may have noticed that the books you really love are bound together by a secret thread.  You know very well what is the common quality that makes you love them, though you cannot put it into words…  Again, you have stood before a landscape, which seems to embody what you have been looking for all your life…  Even in your hobbies, has there not always been some secret attraction…something, not to be identified with, but always on the verge of breaking through, the smell of cut wood in the woodshop or the clap-clap of water against the boat’s side?”

I suppose it was a bit of a “Lewisian” month.  He even appeared {quite extensively} in my Harry Potter paper.  What can I say?

January Goodness

I love Emily from Primitive Roads!  I first “met” her during her 31 Days series…and her Letter to Jen sold me on 7.  Then recently, she instagrammed about a “BN/TJ” date with her husband.  I knew exactly what she meant.  {Also, I knew it meant we might be related.}  Anyway, Emily wrote the most beautiful post on Bread and Winewhich will absolutely be on my summer to-read list.  {And anyone who also writes about Annie Sloan and Shauna’s Blueberry Crisp in the same month?  Treasure.}

What do Vera Wang, Isaac Newton, and Steven Spielberg have in common?  A slide show of 26 people “who failed at first”…  I may have to show this to my students.  May we always remember that life happens in the waiting and many stories are yet to be written…

Also, Sarah’s interview with Sarah Bessey.  I pinned this post, folks.

beauty

Are you as obsessed with Instagram as I am?  How about this list of apps for better Instagrams?

vintage travel outfit

{via Serena Olivieri…so love her work}

And then this little gem of a flash mob.  There should be more like these.  I don’t know which I enjoyed more:  the mob or the faces of the onlookers {little girl climbing the lamp post, man singing along under his breath}…  Be sure to watch every moment of it.

lagniappe

Um…from one of my very favorite scenes from “New Girl”:

polka dots{via}

Also, I went shopping.  Yes, the month after possessions fasting.  Also, the month I had leftover birthday money.  I bought this shirt precisely after seeing it on someone in a coffee shop.  I told her I loved it, she told me it was from Anthro, and I was across the street in a fitting room in two shakes.  I’m that person.  And if she’s reading this, hey. You have taste!  What can I say?  {I may or may not be pairing it with my new black jeans.}

And finally…  15 free, beautiful online magazines.  This weekend’s project?  Combing through them.

How was your April, dear friends?  Any goodness out there?  Any lagniappe?

Linking up…

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Well.  Another semi-tutorial, at least.  We’ve had this pin board since pre-Cardigan Way, so I’m sorry I don’t have a step-by-step.

 

framed burlap pin board This project is mostly Jones Design Company that has been “just a little bit katied.”  {Do you like my new word?}

We have a precious kitchen.  It’s smallish, but we love it.  Besides the obvious kitchen-y things, it contains our fuse box.  Right on the biggest part of blank wall.

Clearly, that won’t do.

But it is WORTH it, I tell you, groping through a powered-off kitchen, finding and removing this clunky frame to get to the fuse box for power.

At first, I planned to cover the box with part of Pottery Barn’s Daily System.  But I could never decide.  And further, it looked like it wouldn’t be as easy to move in the event of an outage.  Never mind the price tag.

For a framed pin board, you will need:

an old cork board {mine was about $3 at a thrift shop.  I think it had sparkly puff paint around the edges.  or else it would have been $2}

a frame {go to hobby lobby. use a coupon.}

t-braces from lowes

heavy-duty screws

a drill

burlap

scissors

staple gun

fun push pins {I love these, these, and these}

fun prints {see mine below}

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STEP ONE:  Make your pin board.  {Emily’s tutorial is here.  It’s so quick and easy!  We have a couple in our office/craft room, too.}

woven burlap

STEP TWO: Remove every part of the frame but the frame {glass and backing}.  Due to the bulk of the pin board, add t-braces to connect the frame and board.  {Do some bicep curls first.  This requires muscle.}

burlap framed

{Also, I don’t think they are called “t-braces.”  That’s what I call them in my head.  Anyone know what these are named?}

STEP THREE:  Mount it on the wall.

framed pinboard

STEP FOUR:  Pin away.

anthropologie wallpaper

{These are wallpaper samples from Anthropologie.  Did you know you can request free swatches?  We have them all over the house.  Secret revealed.}

jones design company printables

ALL three of the prints are from Jones Design Company.  I didn’t intend for that to happen, but it. sure. did.

The ribbon printable is here.

The other two are EITHER free printables {I can’t remember!  Emily has posted many…all lovely.}

OR prints from the season I was a member of her JDC | Monthly {also fantastic}.

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So.  I just ordered myself some more wallpaper swatches.  {Look at this one!}

In the meantime, I think I might add some love to the board.  Any ideas?  I’m thinking something with dimension…

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In light of the horrific events of last week {seen and unseen}, this has been in my mind’s soundtrack.  Thought it was time to share:

{Reading in a Reader? Click here for the video…}

God is the Ruler yet.

{For a taste of the rest of his album, click on the playlist below…  One of the best.}

{And if you still need more, find it here.}

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Strictly lagniappe today, folks.  That’s how I’ve chosen to end the week of Jacob and Esau shenanigans {here and here, if you missed them}.

Do you have an iPhone?  We bought our first ones four years ago, and we’ve always bought cases for for them, entirely for functional purposes only. Unlike the infographic below {and unlike my shoe habit}, I’ve never owned more than one case at a time.  But a few weeks ago, I pinned these lovelies.  {I still like to stare at them between revisions on my final paper.}

And now, I’m seeing these cases over at Tiny Prints.  {iPhone cases most definitely do not fit into our 7-style fasts, but my current case {this one} is unraveling…

What do you think?  Do you have a fun case?  Where are you in the picture?

Tiny Prints iPhone Case Infographic

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{Continued from Monday}

I have to say this, after reading further into Genesis: I do so love the reunion between Jacob and Esau. Can’t you just picture it? Jacob, his clan, his animals, seeing Esau and his 400 men way in the distance, perhaps from atop some desert-y cliff? He saw them “while they were still a long way off.” And then, I can’t  help but wonder what both were thinking… Jacob’s absolute terror vs. Esau’s complete and total embracing of his past and his present? Maybe Esau was a tad confused, and even a little flustered, as wave after wave of “gifts” came – minus one twin brother…

In this way, I want to be like Esau. I want to be able to say {sing}, “whatever my lot, Thou hast taught me to say, ‘It is well, it is well with my soul.’” That might just be better than the blessing.

it is well with my soul

P.S. – I can’t ignore that in the middle of this reunion, Jacob wrestled with God. That is another story, like the previous post, that has utterly baffled me. I’m still thinking about it. However, I can add Mike’s commentary on this {unbeknownst to him…if he reads this post, he will get to weigh in}. When I once mentioned that I’ve never understood this little event in the Bible, my enlightened husband responded with, “Well, for one, it showed that God allows us to wrestle with Him.” And that’s where I have to stop today.

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{This is an excerpt from another era, another blog…}

dogwood

I’ve never known what to make of Jacob and Esau. In the birthright story, you can almost blame Esau for laziness and feel that he “deserves” to lose his birthright. But what about the blessing story? Jacob {well, with his sneaky mama’s help} deceived Isaac and still came out on top. Yes, there were hard times ahead for Jacob. Yes, there was restitution between the brothers in the end. But ultimately, Jacob was {more?} loved by Isaac, Rebekah, and – it’s tempting to say – by God. Apparently, God wove Goodness through a life that included injustice, sin, betrayal… 

dogwood

Yet I am wrestling with God on this one. We have been trained to earn. We have been trained to work for things and we feel wronged when we don’t get what we deserve. {Then again, we feel wronged when we do get what we deserve.} So what’s my lesson here? What does this teach me about God? All I’m coming up with is another example of that “last best word,” grace. Because understanding this story escapes me…it goes against my nature to accept a life of injustice equaling a redeemed ending or a {mostly} innocent life…being cheated out.

dogwood

I know that, thinking of Jacob, I was graced out of a life that would otherwise bring me exactly what I deserve {namely, but not only, death}. But there are days {more days?} when I scratch my head like Esau and stare at blessings {granted, ones that are infinitely less than salvation} that seem to be portioned out to everyone but me. What I know {but don’t necessarily feel. always} is that it’s still an act of grace. 

dogwood

So for today…

May we continue to wonder at the miracle of grace and may we resist the temptation to cheapen our salvation by worrying about what we do or don’t deserve.

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